Tuesday, December 11, 2012

When Christmas-time felt like a Battlefield

“Hope is an amazing, God-given gift. It fuels your dreams, lightens your spirits, and lifts your despair. When life becomes a battlefield, hope digs in and fights the good fight.” Hope is where we are finding rest these days. Hope for healing, for safe travel, for good company, for relief and for normalcy, and hope in a savior that died so we could live forever. I don't think we have ever experienced a harder Fall and Christmas season, but at the same time we have found so much joy and love. I compare it to a battlefield, because I feel like we are constantly fighting optimism and pessimism, hope and fear, trust and mis-trust, self pity and courage, weakness and strength, faith and doubt. I am going to be honest, it has been hard to feel merry and bright, joy, peace, and a lot of the words associated with Christmas this year, but at the same time I feel like Christmas is more real this year, the true meaning of Christmas. I asked Dave what he learned most this year and he said, "each day is a gift!" I feel less concerned with the logistics of Christmas this year and am thankful we have another year together. I just want to be with my family and friends and celebrate the greatest hope of all. This Christmas we celebrate life...the life of Jesus, the life we are all given and the life we have yet to live, because life really is a gift!

A Year in Review
Dave and Shelby
We celebrated 9 years of marriage this year and are more in love than the day we got married. Dave had his biggest year in business, being in the top 2% of about 200 agents at Keller Williams. He sold his most expensive listing ever.  His favorite point of the year was when we took the kids to Yosemite. We had time with friends and family and saw one of the most beautiful places in California.
He has also faced one of the challenging points of his life so far, being diagnosed with ITP an autoimmune, platelet disorder. The last couple of months have been a roller coaster with doctors visits, weekly blood draws, limited exercise, diet restrictions, treatments, financial and administrative burdens, unknowns for the future and physical toll on his body. He started a new treatment last week called Rituxan. This is a mild form of chemo therapy that he will undergo once a week on Wednesdays for the next three weeks. He has one treatment down and that went smoothly with only one minor reaction, a dry/scratchy throat. He has been a little bit more tired than normal, but other than that he is fully functioning and working extremely hard. Although this process has been challenging, Dave being the optimist that he is has learned a lot about himself. One of the first weeks after being diagnosed he said he already learned how to be a lot more empathetic. Even with this battle he is fighting, he still strives to make a difference in the world!
I have been taking things in stride. I wish I could say I was as positive and optimistic. I have been trying to hold onto the words in Duet. 31:6, "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified for the Lord your God goes with you. He will never leave you no forsake you." I have been resisting the temptation to let this challenge consume me. It has been a huge change for our family, but I am trying to lay the burden down and rely on God for strength, faithfulness and perseverance. I have learned a lot about my husband, insurance/administration and community. We feel so loved through this process. We have had so many people willing to watch our kids, bring us meals, and send us encouragement. It is a humbling experience. We are so grateful! I survived another year of parenthood and am really thankful for the two beautiful kids we have been blessed with. You read about my highlights on this blog all the time:)
Tyler
Tyler started his first year of pre-school. He can write his name. He loves to write letters and receive mail. He is so loving to his little sister. He likes to come in every night and give her a hug and a kiss and say "goodnight baby sis!" He likes riding his two wheel bike everyday. His favorite things are super heros, trains, cars, bikes, puzzles and instruments. He plays the drums and guitar at church sometimes. He is a stubborn, inquisitive, social, and smart kid! 
Angela
We call her "our little tornado". She loves to destroy things in her path. She loves knocking full cups off the table and onto the floor.  She loves to eat and she eats all day long, even more than Ty sometimes.  She is talking up a storm, words like boot, Ty-Ty, more, shoes, beach, too, see, me, no, and bike. Her favorite activity is climbing. We have to watch her every second, because in one minute or less she can climb up on the dining room table. He favorite animal is the peacock. She looks for them all the time in our neighborhood and when she sees them she will run after them. She is a easy-going, happy, cuddly, smiley, spunky and chubby kid!
This year for Christmas we pray your family finds hope, even if you are experiencing hardship or a battlefield of your own. We would love to hear from you and your family. 












Thursday, November 29, 2012

Holiday Cheer

This year we stayed home for the Thanksgiving holiday. We were not sure what treatment would be underway for Dave, so we thought it be best to stick around. It was a very relaxing and fun weekend with old friends. We are gearing up for Christmas in the Midwest. We can't wait to see all of our immediate family members. We are hoping for a white Christmas, since we haven't seen one in a while.
Thanksgiving weekend was spent with the Orzewalla clan from Arizona. They are good friends of ours that moved a little less than two years ago to Tucson, AZ. They rolled in Wednesday night and this kids picked up where they left off. While they were here we had a feast on Thanksgiving with the Childs family, saw the space shuttle Endeavor, went to Korean BBQ, and rode a lot of bikes. It was nice to catch up and do some fun things together! Side note, don't go see the Endeavor on a USC game day it's craziness!
While they were here Dave and I bought our first car together. Matt and Kristy took the kids to a friends house one morning and we went car shopping. We found a new used van at the Honda dealership in Pasadena. Our other van was great, but was having some issues smelling like gas and oil. Nobody could figure out what was wrong with it. So there you have it...we bought a Honda Odyssey 2010 with 33,000 miles on it. Should last us a long time.
I have been trying to take photos of the two kids together for a long time and have been unsuccessful. I finally got the two of them to sit down together for one photo(see below). It's not portrait quality but these two can't make a photo look bad right:) We are getting ready for family picture this saturday, which I pray goes well. As of right now the outlook is not great. It is supposed to rain, Tyler has pink eye, Angela has a runny nose, and I have not been feeling great either. I just hope we can get one photo of the four of us where everyone is looking at the camera and smiling! I know, it's a lot to ask, but that is the hope of this clickin momma(aka:mom who takes photos)!





Movie night

Kids table

Set and ready for a feast

Carving the turkey

Meal: Non-dairy Green bean casserole which was awesome, bread, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoe casserole-no sugar,  turkey, cranberry sauce, gravy, stuffing and pie

four pies for six adults...do you think we had enough?  One made with no sugar for Dave.  Thanks to Renee for the awesome Peach pie and Pumpkin cheese cake. I made my first pumpkin pie. 


The new van




Saturday, November 17, 2012

Super Hero 4th Birthday

 This last year Tyler has been excited about super heroes, Spiderman, Batman, Hulk, Captain America, and Superman. For his Birthday he wanted to be the Hulk. Honestly, I have no idea how he even knows who that is. The only Super hero who has been introduced to him is Spiderman by Grandpa Knight, but he seems to know most of them by name now.
For his preschool class he got to take a napkin and a cookie. He chose Batman cookies and Dark Knight batman napkins. We didn't want to do a big party this year with everything that has been going on, so we did a play date in the afternoon on a weekday. I asked Ty which of his friends are his best friends, he said, "All my friends are my best friends mom!" He is so sweet. That made it hard to narrow down to a small little get together for his birthday, but we did it and had a great time with Jace, Nolan, Candace, Katelynn and Ryan. We made superhero capes with their initial on it. The kids ran around and jumped in the jumper pretending to be super heros.
Happy Birthday to our Little Super Four Year Old! It has gone by so fast. His birth seems like a little bit of a blur now. He is a little boy that we are so proud of. We had an observation/conference at his preschool this week and were happy to hear what the teacher had to say. "He is inquisitive, social, and has exceptional critical thinking skills....Tyler loves his classmates...he understands expectation of behavior and is a good role model." Very proud moment for me:) We as parents don't get affirmation very often, but when someone says something nice like that it feels like a huge pat on the back.  This week went a toured a Kindergarten for him which he will start in September 2014. We have lots of decisions to make before then, so we wanted to get an early start. Before we know it he will be starting elementary school.


   











Our only Halloween family photo. Iron Man, Mr. Stark and Pepper Potts from the Movie Iron Man.  Ang was a little pumpkin princess. 



Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Preschool Photos

Tyler's Preschool Class. He is the oldest in the class. He has made some really good friends already.



Terrific Tuesday


Angela is wearing the dress her Great Grandma Jackson made for mommy when she was little. 

Tuesday's have become a big day in the Knight family. This one tops them all. Not only is this General election day for the country but it is also the day that voters decide whether or not to retain Grandpa as Circuit Judge. We are waiting by the phone to here the news and we just heard he has the victory! Angela and I both wore our Retain Knight Circuit Judge shirts today in support of Grandpa. We got lots of questions from people about them. That was fun. It took the focus off the heated battle between the two other more famous candidates running for election.
It is also Terrific Tuesday because we got news that Dave's platelet levels are at 94,000. The hematologist actually said he was glad we decided not to go through with the chemo treatment like he originally planned. Dave said he was thankful I talked him out of it and decided to wait a week. He is going to decrease the dose of prednisone again.
We also spent a terrific weekend with Grandma. We were sad to say good-bye but thankful for the great time we had. Thanks for all your help mom! I appreciate you helping me get back on my feet, for helping me get my mind off things and for the fun times we had shopping! It was like old times! Tyler and Angela miss there "Yaya"!

Sleepover in Tyler's room with Grandma Olson or as Angela calls her...Yaya!

Angela's duck buddies on the back porch. She is an animal lover!

Happy Birthday Grandma at Santorini in Old Town Pasadena!

Grandma visits...this is one of the items on the list of things Ty had for Grandma to do while she was here.

Ty's first time surfing

Another day at the beach...November in So. Cal is rough! We stopped here after dropping Grandma off at the airport in hopes of seeing her plane!



Hugs from Buddy Sander

Ready for Election Day! Rooting for Grandpa Knight!!

Kidspace with buddy Nolan